Handover Hell: How to Make Custody Handovers Go Smoothly for You and the Kids

Are you finding custody handovers with your ex-partner to be stressful and challenging? We've got you covered. In this episode, Laura and Lynette dive into practical strategies to make custody handovers smoother and more manageable for everyone involved. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

Why You Should Listen:

• 🌟 Learn how to reduce tension and conflict during custody handovers.
• ❓ Discover practical tips to make handovers less stressful for your children.
• 💡 Get strategies to communicate effectively with your co-parent.
• 🛡 Find solutions for dealing with a high-conflict ex-partner.
• 📚 Receive advice on creating a consistent and positive handover routine.

Key Ideas Discussed:

• Common Challenges in Custody Handovers: Identifying typical issues and how to address them.
• Preparation Tips: How to prepare yourself and your children for a smooth handover.
• Effective Communication: Strategies for clear and respectful communication with your co-parent.
• Using Neutral Locations: Benefits of conducting handovers in neutral, public places.
• Creating a Routine: Establishing a consistent schedule and routine for stability.
• Managing Emotions: Techniques for staying calm and positive during handovers.
• Involving a Third Party: When and how to use a trusted third party to facilitate handovers.
• Handling High-Conflict Situations: Tips for managing handovers with a difficult ex-partner.

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Episodes mentioned in this Podcast

Parenting Orders Program (POP) | Relationships Australia Queensland

12 Agreements for a Parenting Plan

Consent Orders

Help My Ex Won't Let Me See the Kids

Why Your Narcissistic Ex May Want a Parenting Coordinator

Handover Hell: How to Make Child Custody Exchanges Easier

00:00 Introduction to Handover Hell

01:33 Why Specify Handover Locations?

02:35 Types of Handover Options

08:42 Future Proofing Your Handover Plan

15:08 Locking in Handover Arrangements

20:08 Making Handover Easier for Kids

25:08 Arranging Handover for Parents' Well-being

29:35 Free Resources for Divorce Preparation

30:17 Common Mistakes During Handovers

31:24 The Dangers of Filming Handovers

32:28 Handling Drunk or Unsafe Parents

35:48 Dealing with Late or Unreliable Parents

40:05 When Children Refuse to Go

43:34 Legal Support and Family Reports

46:00 Creating Effective Parenting Plans

48:22 Managing Manipulative and Controlling Exes

51:14 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Emergency Contacts:

• WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE 
• LEGAL AID
• Lifeline 13 11 14
• Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
• Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
• Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
• Relationships Australia 
• Police on 000
• DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
• DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
• National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

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Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.